Family Education Plan

Schooling Options

The schooling options you choose for your children play a major role in whom they become, “educating” them in areas far beyond the academics. Each option has unique strengths and benefits, and the choices you make require as much prayer and wisdom as any other ministry-related decision.

At different times in a family’s ministry responsibilities and at different ages or transition periods, different schooling options may be more helpful in a child’s development. Remaining open to reevaluating options and never saying “Never!” can result in more comprehensive preparation for life.  

Home teaching has many opportunities to impart family values and the flexibility to meet individual learning and family needs. Using national schools helps children quickly learn the local language and build relationships in the community. Small, multigrade mission schools provide homey atmospheres for developing strong friendships and learning to be productive members of groups.

Larger school settings often provide instruction or mentorship in special ability areas as well as “halfway steps” to cultural adjustment in the passport country. Attending a secular school can develop strength for standing firm and can be a training ground for becoming “salt and light” in the world. Any school setting helps children learn to relate to authority figures other than their parents—a key skill in the world of work.

Every schooling option provides richness in ways others cannot. No one schooling option is broad enough to encourage development of all the skills, abilities, and attitudes you will want your children to acquire to be ready to live independently when that time comes. This is especially true if your children spend most of their growing up years in an isolated setting overseas and you want them to be prepared to live successfully one day in your home country. Above all, look for comprehensiveness and balance over your children’s entire school career.

Planning Ahead

Many families facing schooling choices have been challenged and encouraged by developing a family educational plan. This helps them focus on the long-term values and goals they have for their children. It helps them to be aware of and take advantage of the different schooling options that will support them in fostering this broad range of skills, attitudes, and values

Getting caught up in day-to-day “survival” and just getting through the current year can make it easy to lose sight of long-term goals, to miss out on addressing some of the most important areas in which children need to develop. The family educational plan can help you keep broad, long-term goals in view.

You may find it helpful to work through this process for your family. First, list goals you have for your children. Which skills, attitudes, and abilities do you want your children to develop, both to live richly in the overseas setting and to take with them when they graduate and move out on their own, probably in their passport country?2

These are some of the values/goals parents have listed:

Academic

• Make good academic progress, to extent of the child’s abilities

• Develop independent study skills and lifelong learning skills

• Develop competence and ethics in the use of technology

• Be exposed to a variety of career options

• Develop in areas of giftedness

Work-related

• Be prepared for higher education institutions of choice

• Be able to work under authorities who don’t share the same values

• Be able to work in groups (i.e., leadership skills and team work)

• Develop good work habits

Life

• Develop independent living skills for passport country

• Be emotionally mature and stable; be resilient

• Take advantage of unique host-country learning opportunities

Cross-cultural

• Make national friends

• Learn host-country language

• Develop culture-adaptation skills

• Value host culture

• Value passport country

• Have strong ties to people and places in passport country

• Have a positive sense of identity (as a TCK, as a citizen of their passport country, as a believer, etc.)

Spiritual

• Hold strong values

• Learn to be “salt and light” in host country

• Learn to be “salt and light” in passport country

Relational

• Develop strong family relationships (including extended family)

• Have good relationships with other members of the Body

• Use personal gifts in service/ministry to the Body

• Trust the Father in personal hardship; display perseverance

Second, think through how different schooling options might be particularly strong or weak in encouraging growth toward the goals you’ve listed. Third, use a chart like the one below to plot what you anticipate the circumstances of your lives might be during your children’s schooling years.

Directions for completing the chart below:

1. Write your children’s names in the boxes on the left side of the chart.

2. Across the top, list the school years (e.g., ’19-’20, ’20-’21) from now through the time your youngest will graduate from secondary school.

3. In the “Task” row, jot down what you anticipate your ministry situation to be during each of those years (e.g., raising support, language school, first year in assignment, home leave, etc.).

4. In the row beside each child’s name, note the grade or level he or she will be in each year (or age of preschoolers).

5. Now examine the columns under each year on the chart. What might your life look like that year in light of ministry, living, and schooling responsibilities? What schooling options do you think you can handle, and which might best meet the needs of each child and your goals for him or her that year? Keeping the answers to these questions in mind, write the options you think you might choose each year in the row beside each child’s name.

6. Discuss the chart as a couple. Be open to reevaluating and making adjustments as circumstances and needs change.

Family Education Plan Chart

Fillable Family Education Plan Form - you will need to download this form in order to fill it in.